After Job had prayed for his friends, the LORD restored his fortunes and gave him twice as much as he had before. Job 42:10
* "AFTER" Job prayed for his friends
** Forgiveness led to restoration
I have been hurt (still am), i have held grudges (still do) and the knowledge of the principles of forgiveness didn't exactly help me forgive so i know that there is nothing i tell you that will ease your pain or take it away completely. But i can point you to God and i can pray for you.
May the Lord heal your heart and give you the grace to forgive those who have hurt you.